? for (somewhat) mature guys

[MisSFiT]

So, if you were somewhat talking to a girl and after you were getting off the phone, the conversation ended with "give me a call, or I'll call you" what does that mean?
Does it mean:
A. Call me
B. Don't call me, I'll call you, and if i dont go screw yourself
C. I don't care either way
D. I really don't care if I talk to you again, if I do cool, if I don't cool.

[executioneer]

why does everytihng have to MEAN something sheesh

[executioneer]

it means "hey call me if you're interested in me, and if you don't then if i'm still interested in you i will call you"

that or "PHONE EQUIVALENT TO A BLINKING CONTEST, FIRST ONE TO CALL LOSES"

[executioneer]

that or it means "whoops i've got a variant form of tourette's syndrome where i spout out semi-polite but somewhat vague phone goodbyes"

[MisSFiT]

:lol It does ALWAYS have to mean something. unfortunatly girls, or maybe just me, can't just take things as they are and I always have to analyze things too deeply. Sorry :(

[Esuohlim]

Hey here's an idea if you're going to spend the duration of a possibly budding relationship treating everything as if it's a mind game then maybe the guy would be unlucky to be going out with you in the long run anyway so why don't you just call him back and end it ok, trust me.

[Cosmo Electrolux]

it means "hey call me if you're interested in me, and if you don't then if i'm still interested in you i will call you"

that or "PHONE EQUIVALENT TO A BLINKING CONTEST, FIRST ONE TO CALL LOSES"

This is the correct answer. I think that , basically, this person wants to talk to you again, regardless of who initiates the call.

[Krythor]

and Larry David said "that's an episode."

[MockMeAmadeus]

Initiate the call, sheesh

[MisSFiT]

I did, sheesh.

We're going to have sex tomorrow.
JK??

[MockMeAmadeus]

and Larry David said "that's an episode." :\

[DeadKennedys]

I did, sheesh.

We're going to have sex tomorrow.
JK??

This is I-mockery. No virgins allowed.

[MisSFiT]

I'm old enough to be your mother.

I just started dating again after a year and a half, so if it seems as though my questions are somewhat high school, it's because I sort of feel like I am in high school, dating is so gay.

[MockMeAmadeus]

Newsflash. Hear yea, hear yea, MisSFIT is going to have sex today. Remember to update.

[MisSFiT]

I was kidding I swear.

[MockMeAmadeus]

I know :\

[MisSFiT]

Well, i'm not ruling out the possibility...

[MockMeAmadeus]

of what?

[MisSFiT]

Of getting drunk.

[MockMeAmadeus]

So, if you were somewhat talking to a girl and after you were getting off the phone, the conversation ended with "give me a call, or I'll call you" what does that mean?
Does it mean:
A. Call me
B. Don't call me, I'll call you, and if i dont go screw yourself
C. I don't care either way
D. I really don't care if I talk to you again, if I do cool, if I don't cool.

[MisSFiT]

It means:
E. You better call me you bastard.

[Cosmo Electrolux]

so, what happened? Did he call back? Did you call him? Did you get a date or something?

[MisSFiT]

Like Oh my GOD, we went on a date. :)
First dates are extremely uncomfortable. :(
Just thought I'd throw that out there. :\

[MockMeAmadeus]

I'm routing for you

[executioneer]

what exactly are you routing, and where

[MisSFiT]

I think he meant rooting, but anyway, thanks.
Does a guy usually call right away, or do they usually wait to act like they are cool? There is no way I'm calling him, I think that would make me seem too desperate, right? guys? amd I right?
I really don't like liking people, that is why I act like a sarcastic bitch and I guess if he can deal with that for a llittle while until I get comfortable and break down my "wall of torture" then that means they are a keeper. But really how annoying is that when you are trying to get to know someone? I need to change my ways, maybe I should go on Dr. Phil?

[MockMeAmadeus]

MisSFIT, thanks for saving my ass on the routing thing. Yea, actually it should read rooting. :\

Correct. It is stipulated in Chapter 2 of the Dating manual for Cool (Immature) guys. It reads something to this effect: 'Never, ever make contact with her immediately. Let her "suffer" for a while'.

So, leave it for a while and see what happens. Don't fret. I agree, don't call him. He must make the first move.:)

[Cosmo Electrolux]

I think there is an unwritten "guy" thing where the man must wait three days before calling the girl. However, I broke with accepted protocol with my current girlfriend and called her when I got home after our first date. She later told me that my calling made a HUGE impression.

[MockMeAmadeus]

You, good sir, are not immature.:bow

[Cosmo Electrolux]

Well, I am, but not about everything :)

P.S. Welcome to the forum.

[MockMeAmadeus]

Thank you.

[MattJack]

I think he meant rooting, but anyway, thanks.
Does a guy usually call right away, or do they usually wait to act like they are cool? There is no way I'm calling him, I think that would make me seem too desperate, right? guys? amd I right?
I really don't like liking people, that is why I act like a sarcastic bitch and I guess if he can deal with that for a llittle while until I get comfortable and break down my "wall of torture" then that means they are a keeper. But really how annoying is that when you are trying to get to know someone? I need to change my ways, maybe I should go on Dr. Phil?

I tell a girl when I'm going to call her, or ask.

"Can I call you this week?"

"Can I call you tomorrow/in a few days?"

Most guys wait a couple of days before calling a girl because they don't want to seem desperate. I would only suggest calling this hombre in a couple of days if you really like him.

Text messages are a lot easier, so I would suggest texting him if you wanna talk.

[Cosmo Electrolux]

I think he meant rooting, but anyway, thanks.
Does a guy usually call right away, or do they usually wait to act like they are cool? There is no way I'm calling him, I think that would make me seem too desperate, right? guys? amd I right?
I really don't like liking people, that is why I act like a sarcastic bitch and I guess if he can deal with that for a llittle while until I get comfortable and break down my "wall of torture" then that means they are a keeper. But really how annoying is that when you are trying to get to know someone? I need to change my ways, maybe I should go on Dr. Phil?


wait a minute....you're sarcastic and pretend you don't like the guy, then expect him to call? Um....okay.

[MattJack]

wait a minute....you're sarcastic and pretend you don't like the guy, then expect him to call? Um....okay.

Women are strange, strange creatures.

Men are from Mars, women are from Crazy.

Or as my father always says:

"Women, can't live with em, can't kill 'em."

[Cosmo Electrolux]

I've said that a few times myself...yep.

[MisSFiT]

No, I don't really act like a bitch or pretend not to like him. I just sort of like to make fun of people in a flirting type of manner:\

Anyway he texted me today, so I guess it sort of worked. Now I don't know if I like him anymore. :(

[Perndog]

The "wait so you don't seem desperate" thing only goes for guys. Girls should call whenever they feel like, as long as it's not in the middle of the night or repeatedly. Better yet, make plans for the second date while you're still on the first date, then you don't have to do the stupid phone thing at all.

[MisSFiT]

I'm kidding, I do like him, but I don't like mixed messages, or mind games, if that is what you would call it, I don't know. I'll call him tomorrow.

[Esuohlim]

No, do what I said

[MockMeAmadeus]

Shit, she already called.:\

[MisSFiT]

What do you mean? So what if I called, what does that mean? I shouldn't had huh?

I know milhouse, I should have just done what you said in the first place, and said screw it.

[Cosmo Electrolux]

:eek holy crap, you called him??? That's a egregious breach of etiquette, young lady... there could be consequences.

[MisSFiT]

I know, he texted me first on friday. Now I haven't heard from him. Oh well, you win some you lose some, I'm pretty f-n irratated. I don't understand those things called men.

[Cosmo Electrolux]

we are complicated animals. :)

[MisSFiT]

No, your just animals. But not like human animals.

[MockMeAmadeus]

Nope, we are like human animals. Trust me, they are the worst.

[MockMeAmadeus]

Use strategy on him. Phone him and ask him what does he want out of this. Only two options. Yes or No. That's it. If yes, great. If no, well then he is the loser. As long as it's not in the middle of the night or repeatedly.

[Cosmo Electrolux]

No, your just animals. But not like human animals.

ah, so now we resort to generalization.

[MisSFiT]

Sorry :\
I only meant part of that.
Yeah I just need to be straight forward and ask.
we have mutual friends so I might see him this weekend, I'll ask when I'm drunk!! :)

[MockMeAmadeus]

Alcohol is one of the major causes of repetitiveness in the middle of the night. So take it slow on the booze, young lady:)

[Perndog]

FUCK it's not that big a deal just call him right now, make plans, and don't talk to him until your date. Then go on the date, and before it's over, make plans to meet again. REPEAT UNTIL SEX OCCURS. >:

[MisSFiT]

I did fucker! :)
What did you mean by "until sex occurs."

[Perndog]

I mean that when sex occurs you obviously know where things stand and your question has been fully answered.

[MockMeAmadeus]

I did fucker! :)
What did you mean by "until sex occurs."

Then get pregnant, marry him, get the kid (or more than one), wait until he acquired a good income (and house perferably), then make him miserably, then divorce him, then get 1/2 of what he has acquired, then meet someone else and start all over again. In short, LIVE life!:\

[MisSFiT]

Wow, I can tell you have been damaged by "life"

[Cosmo Electrolux]

someone is a little bitter....I mean besides me.