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| Jul 30th, 2005 07:16 AM | |||
| Yggdrasill |
Yay, true love conquers most things that aren't physical. 
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| Jul 30th, 2005 01:40 AM | |||
| DeadKennedys |
Rebel without a cause  Anyway, everything worked itself out. She realized this week just how much she loves me and she doesn't care how much we argue or anything, she'd be happy to be miserable with me  And frankly, that was already my point of view
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| Jul 27th, 2005 04:34 PM | |||
| kellychaos |
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| Jul 26th, 2005 05:43 PM | |||
| Dole | I have dated several Nazis and radical Islamists, no problem. | ||
| Jul 26th, 2005 04:38 PM | |||
| kellychaos |
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| Jul 26th, 2005 03:37 PM | |||
| !!!! |
sounds like she needs a rough assfucking 
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| Jul 26th, 2005 03:19 PM | |||
| kahljorn | lol. It's always funny to see people demoralize and completely destruct somebody's boring personality. CONGRATULATIONS CHIMPY, YOU WIN A LIFESAVER.. A PURPLE ONE... FROM A THAI FOOD PLACE. | ||
| Jul 26th, 2005 02:32 PM | |||
| AChimp |
1. You don't have any value for money. 2. You don't have a concept of justice. 3. You play by your own rules. You sound immature and childish. No wonder she's concerned. 
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| Jul 26th, 2005 01:42 PM | |||
| Helm |
I think that's bullshit too. Why would a conversation with someone likeminded last 30 seconds? It might not turn into an argument, but not all conversations are arguments. "Lost in translation was very good." "Yeah I agree for x and y reasons." "Note how y really foreshadows x in that part of the film" etc etc What you said sounds like cheap cosmo style crap. |
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| Jul 26th, 2005 01:21 PM | |||
| Emu | People don't typically want to fuck people who dislike everything they value. So, I don't think that's true. | ||
| Jul 26th, 2005 01:03 PM | |||
| MetalMilitia |
I think i read somewhere that the most sucessful (longest together etc) couples have very little in common. If you are with someone who likes everything you like and dislikes everything you dislike you will have a pretty boring time together "Lost in translation sucks right?" "Yea i thought so to" All your conversations would last about 30 seconds. If you disagree about things like religion you can have heated week long debates and all manner of other simulating conversation. ...or something. |
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| Jul 25th, 2005 08:21 PM | |||
| Helm |
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| Jul 25th, 2005 08:13 PM | |||
| ziggytrix |
Gender preference and religious/social values, IMO, would be the barest essentials. Religious compatibility doesn't mean you both believe the exact same thing, so much as you don't have incompatible beliefs, such that you feel the need to change the other's values. |
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| Jul 25th, 2005 07:44 PM | |||
| KevinTheOmnivore |
"My thoretical solution is to have a relationship which (both people agree that) shouldn't require compatibility on any other level than the barest essentials." What the hell are the barest essentials? Sex and film taste? I hit a similar cross road with a girl I was with for a few years. We're still trying out the friendship thing, but I know we can't be in a realtionship, nor could we ever get married, so what's the point? Should we be a couple just for the sake of being a couple? You might wanna ask yourself that. |
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| Jul 25th, 2005 06:50 PM | |||
| kahljorn | That whole thing read like a Profile on a 60yearolds+ dating service. | ||
| Jul 25th, 2005 06:33 PM | |||
| kellychaos | Other than attraction, isn't respect for each other one of the barest of essentials? | ||
| Jul 25th, 2005 05:01 PM | |||
| kellychaos | Is there any chance that you might set up an opportunity to test her faith like killing her grandmother or a beloved family pet and making it look like the work of a random, sadistic killer? ... not including religious overtones in your work would be a plus in this case. | ||
| Jul 25th, 2005 07:40 AM | |||
| Helm |
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My thoretical solution is to have a relationship which (both people agree that) shouldn't require compatibility on any other level than the barest essentials. |
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| Jul 25th, 2005 01:26 AM | |||
| DeadKennedys |
Different Morals/Values/Beliefs and Such... There is a girl that I have been in love with almost 3 years ago, and her the same for me. We met in school, dated over the summer, broke up the next summer, and got back together a few weeks ago. Something has been troubling us though... she is a little bothered by how different our morals and values are. She says that sometimes they conflict a whole lot, like the fact that she is spiritual (not organizedly religious but believes in divine stuff) and I'm an atheist or agnostic or whatever you want to call it. Life is but a dream... Her family taught her to value her tradition in alot of ways and even though she doesn't always follow it, she gets a little flustered with me. I'm a good old fashioned gentleman, but I know that times are changing and like in Fiddler on the Roof we can't hold on to those traditions forever. Her morals are different than mine. I don't have much value for money or the concept of justice, but I always fulfill my obligations. I always want to do everything my own way and I am very impulsive, but I have faith in my own values. So, that usually gets me into trouble with other people, and with her. I love danger and always can crack a joke no matter how bad it gets, but sometimes that doesn't jive with her. I am falling in love with her again, and I'll probably end up marrying her someday, I'm just worried that she's right about our beliefs and values clashing. Is there any way to keep two very different people in good harmony? We have never had troubles with it until now, and I don't even feel the problem, but she says (especially the religion part) bothers her. |
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