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Jan 3rd, 2006 12:11 AM
Jixby Phillips I think you should all stop seeing each other
Jan 2nd, 2006 05:23 PM
sadie the threesome soothed things for now, eh?
Jan 2nd, 2006 04:42 PM
MetalMilitia Yea she tried that and it didn't really work. Seems like the whole thing has sorted itself outnow anyway.
Jan 2nd, 2006 04:37 PM
ziggytrix the sit-com solution is to have jen hook lee up with one of her friends, and then you guys can double-date.
Jan 1st, 2006 06:49 PM
jin Oh wow, this thread was just went BANG out of nowhere- and it was all cock jokes from there. ;0
Jan 1st, 2006 06:37 PM
GADZOOKS By Halo deathmatching you mean flogging his cob right?
Jan 1st, 2006 01:43 PM
AChimp Lee is gay for you. He wants your hog.
Jan 1st, 2006 11:24 AM
adept_ninja just tell him straight up. she sucks your cock and unless he wants to start seeing you more he needs to start pulling his own weight
Jan 1st, 2006 09:10 AM
MetalMilitia Things seem to be getting better, and they are now friends again. Also I have gone round to lee's place a couple of times for some Halo deathmatching which was fun.

Im hoping the whole thing will just blow over now and things will be like they used to be.
Jan 1st, 2006 06:28 AM
Slinky Ferret Just a thought but this sort of situation can occur for several reasons.
The main reason you have not thought of is that Lee has feelings for Jen and is really jealous that you are with her.

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In some ways im annoyed that lee cant just be happy for me but I understand what its like when a good friend just dissapears for weeks on end because he's always with his girlfriend.
I think thats your main problem though. He feels rejected and left out. Maybe try and do something social together, with a few other people too that doesn't just involve the pub. He might be feeling lonely and frustrated that he doesn't have a girlfriend.

I think this situation happens quite often with lads. One of my former boyfriends just did not get the balance right and it ended up with his friends being around the whole time and not having any time together. When I tried to argue that I wanted some "quality" time with him e.g. one evening - things got pretty nasty and two of his friends started bitching about me. Ironicly when we split up one of those friends was actually sad about because he realised I wasn't such a bitch after all.

Men are fickle sometimes! Maybe you should spend half the day with Lee and half with your girlee if they can't handle being around each other.
Dec 31st, 2005 11:01 PM
Pub Lover Jokingly suggest they sleep together, but you must remember to get mad if they really do.
Dec 30th, 2005 12:48 PM
maggiekarp Freak out and tell them their feud is tearing you apart (shirt ripping off is a plus, as well). Then go into a drunken song number of "Why can't we be friends." The tension will be gone between them, but only because neither of them will hang out with you again

How about talking to your friend online? Friendships can be carried on without physical contact, but lovey type stuff really needs touch and sight.

Good luck, go with what you feel is right, and hope you get ome better advice
Dec 30th, 2005 12:38 PM
MetalMilitia Well im at university so I can only come back for perhaps 1 day a week and thats usually spent with jen.
And we do hang out together alot (in the pub) but im worried that they'll start a full on argument and i'll be the one in the middle. I cant take sides because I like them both but if I dont im worried jen or lee will be offended.
Dec 30th, 2005 12:13 PM
maggiekarp How are you not able to see him for weeks at a time? That sucks :/

Try to hang out with both of them at the same time?
Dec 30th, 2005 11:53 AM
MetalMilitia
I need loveline advice :(

The time has come for me to request some expert i-mockery advice

Basically the chatacters in this are me (me), jen (girlfriend) and lee (friend).
Me and jen are getting on fine but she keeps telling me that lee always makes snide comments about her like "Me and stefan used to be best friends, now he's always with you", although I dont think he means any offence it upsets her that he keeps making her out to be the annoying girlfriend who is trying to steal me away.
Things dont seem to be getting any better between them and im worried that soon they will really start to dislike eachother and i'll be stuck in the middle while they both bitch about eachother to me.

I tried to talk to jen and asked her if mabey she could just try and get on with lee a bit better and not 'rock the boat' so to speak, and she basically said if he is going to be a cunt then she is not doing him any favours.

The problem is I do like both of them and definatly want to stay friends with lee, but I dont know if its at the cost of splitting up with jen which I also definatly dont want to do.

In some ways im annoyed that lee cant just be happy for me but I understand what its like when a good friend just dissapears for weeks on end because he's always with his girlfriend.

I dont know if I should just stay out of the whole thing and hope it blows over or talk to lee and tell him that this is just the way things are at the moment and he'll have to get used to it. Or atleast try and explain that is hard for me to hang out with him as often as we used to as I barely see jen enough as it is, what with uni.

hmpf, I wish everyone could just get along

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