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Aug 7th, 2006 10:22 AM
Bod Ha ha ha!!!

Whilst I was on holiday a 3 page hand written letter arrived from the very same prick.

Seems he's thought of me everyday and had a list of excuses for his shitty email. He said I didn't deserve the shit he gave me and that he didn't mean to be, but was pre-occupied with job hunting.

So, he says he's been checking out online my running results for races I have done and the Edinburgh Marathon. He's been checking out my MySpace too and seen that I'm in a relationship but wants to be friends again. He saw a horse riding place in Scotland he thought I would like and maybe he could take me there to say sorry? (I'm sure my bf wouldn't mind me going on holiday with an ex!!)

Oh and I must visit him at his new house in Brigton - a mere couple of hundred miles away.

I threw the letter in the bin with a great feeling of smugness and knowledge that I was right, he is a complete loon.
Mar 2nd, 2006 10:31 PM
VolCanon Well we aren't all like that so don't be disilliusioned for long.
Anyway isn't self-sex better than using some girl anyway? All the money and effort, etc.
I love how my gf cooks for me, because food is good. Certainly better than sex.
Feb 27th, 2006 11:46 AM
Bod God knows what I was thinking. Obviously this guy did have good points or I wouldn't have sent my time with him. But I chose to ignore all the bad ones until it was too late because I am an idiot!

Anyway, angry that I am, I mean him no harm. Spent the weekend with my pyshologist mates who see that at his age, that guy is stuck for life with problems far worse than a spot of depression. So we're sending him a whole load of literature on OCDs and Emotional Detatchment Disorders, I'm sure he'll appreciate it!
Feb 24th, 2006 11:02 PM
Terra Lordy Bod. It gets worse as you sit back and reflect on all the stuff. I Imagine it's like all of us that hit that point and say to ourselves "wtf??" All of that crap that the ex would say and only now you can review it with objective eyes. We have all been there before. Well those of us that aren't living vivariously through the net.

It hits like a "What the hell was I thinking??" way.

Just don't beat yourself up over it. Your not alone.
Feb 24th, 2006 06:23 PM
Dr. Boogie
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Originally Posted by Bod
Thing is he spoke like that, even used words like 'peripatetic' in texts.
What a dumb thing for him to say. You're not missing your legs.
Feb 24th, 2006 09:57 AM
Dole 'peripatetic' in a text?? ha, fucking pretentious cunt. Go on, show him this thread.
Feb 24th, 2006 07:24 AM
Bod ha ha sspad, I can see why you'd say that. Thing is he spoke like that, even used words like 'peripatetic' in texts. I seemed to have picked it up to, the best way to communicate with him. I email differently to my friends, only like that for work.
Feb 24th, 2006 05:48 AM
Chojin Sspad, last i saw you (2001) I thought you had a fiancee?

Sorry if I'm a jerk for asking that ;<
Feb 24th, 2006 01:23 AM
sspadowsky Bod, you seem like a nice person. Please forgive me for being amused by the British-ness of that whole e-mail exchange. I couldn't help but imagine that conversation taking place between John Cleese and Graham Chapman.

At any rate, perhaps a sabbatical from the opposite sex is in order. I've taken one myself. It could be a result of my moral and social repugnance, but I'm claiming it's a sabbatical.

Oh, and pretend Kulturklub isn't here. He hasn't yet learned how to associate with the grown-ups.
Feb 23rd, 2006 12:34 PM
Dole Jesus, he sounds like a fucking maniac. Lucky escape bod!
Feb 23rd, 2006 10:58 AM
Bod Yeah but what if he doesn't mention it's not a relationship until two months later? After having treated you as one does a girlfriend. I've been in fuck-buddy style relationships, I know the difference, it's quite clear from the beginning. You don't make plans to do stuff together for a start. You don't tell her that wonderful girlfriends make great cakes just after she bakes you one.

At least my depression was caused by a series of unfortunate events and can be addressed, with time got over. I would much prefer this to being neurotic, having emotional detachment disorders, social dysfunctionality, anger problems, superiority complexes and OCDs. I mean it's not normal to start folding the clothes on the floor half way during sex no more than one worries about the mess you will make on the sheets when the woman is giving you a hand-job. Then promptly stripping the bed and attacking the sheets with a bar of vanish in front of her.
Feb 22nd, 2006 11:43 PM
Womti because you said so, right.
Feb 22nd, 2006 11:40 PM
The One and Only... If he tells you it's not a relationship, it isn't.
Feb 22nd, 2006 11:34 AM
Bod Well his original excuse for going on MySapce was similar to that of mine. We both have a few foriegn friends and some all over the country. MySpace was a good meeting place and I do keep in contact with a lot of people I meet in real life.

The one difference was I never added complete strangers to mine or went on the prowl.
Feb 22nd, 2006 10:30 AM
Cosmo Electrolux
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Originally Posted by Kulturkampf
fuck off, mle.
No, really assclown....crawl back up Hitlers ass and shut the fuck up
Feb 22nd, 2006 04:36 AM
Kulturkampf fuck off, mle.
Feb 22nd, 2006 03:51 AM
Hugh_Bristic The part I find most disturbing about this story is not that he flirts with teenagers but that he's a grown ass man on myspace.
Feb 21st, 2006 09:30 PM
MLE Go back to the politics forum where you can at least be politely tolerated.
Feb 21st, 2006 06:20 PM
Kulturkampf I think because of our western society and culture, we are more inclined to make a lot of these mistakes, and they contribute very negative to much of our society; it is alot easier and a lot better for a relationship if it is not clouded by sex.

On a large scale, sex can be negative to a relationship and can confuse it. It can make a bad relationship last far too long because of 'sex being good,' and it can become an issue of jealousy that ruins good relationships because of past sexual decadence.
Feb 21st, 2006 06:11 PM
Bod Then I would be a 34 year old virgin!!

I think I'm past the marrying stage.

The sex wasn't the problem, it was being led to beleive that it was something more than it was.
Feb 21st, 2006 06:10 PM
AChimp
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Originally Posted by Kulturkampf
You should wait until you are married to have sex.
As opposed to paying for it like you do?
Feb 21st, 2006 06:06 PM
Kulturkampf
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Originally Posted by Terra
He was doing it to justify the sex with you. To keep it clear in his own messed up way of thinking, that he was helping you and getting you through a tough time. Or maybe he wasn't even thinking that, he just wanted a shag until you caught on.

And really, I would not sleep with anybody for a while. At least until your emotionally back on your feet.
You should wait until you are married to have sex.

It makes things less complicated and fucked up when it comes to relations amongst mankind.
Feb 21st, 2006 04:25 PM
Bod No I won't, not even a date or go anywhere near a man that might be vaguely interested. I've had enough!
Feb 21st, 2006 04:20 PM
Terra He was doing it to justify the sex with you. To keep it clear in his own messed up way of thinking, that he was helping you and getting you through a tough time. Or maybe he wasn't even thinking that, he just wanted a shag until you caught on.

And really, I would not sleep with anybody for a while. At least until your emotionally back on your feet.
Feb 21st, 2006 03:52 PM
Bod
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It's still not a good idea to send letters while depressed, though.
You are completely right there of course. It's as bad as sending emails when you are drunk, your head just isn't clear.

And I don't feel used about the sex btw, I loved every minute of it, I feel used in my emotions, if I knew it was just fuck-buddies then I wouldn't have spent so much time with him. It took a great leap of faith to trust another man after the last one.

I also resent him making out I was some sad charity case that he was on a mission to cheer up. For gods sake I have plenty of friends and was doing fine before him, what made him think he was my great saviour?
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