I'm sad
 

My b/f and i got into a really big argument over something he's admitted doing (after i caught him) and admited it was stupid. i'm still really kinda hurt by it... what comes next? i'm not going to leave him but i'm still upset by it. what am i supposed to do now?

"it" ? As in ? Sodomizing your 3 year old little brother ? Or eating all of the leftover pizza without you ?

"it" as in sending naked pictures of himself (2 days before we moved in together) to a girl he used to fuck and talking about fucking her again.

Trash him.

i might add that that had happened over a year ago and i just found out about it tonight. and he hasn't cheated on me.

Haaa. Different. I dunno.

dammit you guys are supposed to know this stuff. what do i do next?!?!?! it's driving me crazy!!!

A year ago? Bleh. I'd let it go. A lot of stuff can happen in a year. If he isn't doing it now I wouldn't sweat it.

kiss him and tell him i love him? hug him and say that? make up sex? i'm counting on you guys.

we've never been in a fight like this before. this is he worse it's been. never had a problem til this arised.

Tell him your pissed or hurt or whatever and either try to discuss it with him or wait until he takes a shower, plug in the toaster to the bathroom outlet and toss it in there with him.

Obviously your bugged about it. I'd let him know how you feel and get some feedback. If your fighting about it, you might need to step off a bit and cool off until you CAN discuss it.

all the fighting's done it's like just silence now. we've a;ready discussed everything, he was stupid for doing it blah blah blah.... i just don't know what to do now. i'm still a little upset but now that he feels like shit for it i feel better. i just don't know if i should go back to the way things were before i found out and let everything be ok or should i let him simmer on it a bit or what? i feel really bad about not being affectionate with him b/c we're very huggy kissy and we haven't kissed. i just don't know what i can do in the silence besides torture him with bad glam ballads....

Were you two still together when he did this a year ago? I mean as in tight (just the two of you and nobody else)?

yes, it's always been him and me and we've always been very physically affectionate. the emails happened like right after he came home from a month long tour....i swear to god BILL if you read this and say ANYTHING to ANYONE i will kill you.

Oh. That's different. He's history. :)


Who the hell is Bill??

i'm weak. i'm going to make up with him. i can't stand seeing him sadder than me. and bill is someone on here and i'll be very upset if he talks to anyone about this if he sees it.

Fuck you, I'm going to say everything!

just because you're hot doesn't mean shit to this :P you aren't bill :P

:lol x 100

-willie

This is the gayest thread ever.

Whats he doing sending naked pics to a girl he used to shag anyway? 'here you go love, remember me cock?'

If its a year ago and you think hes trustworthy I would let it go. But let him know he hurt you big time.

After that, dress up as scooby doo, alter a packet of cookies with a large visible label that reads 'symbolic potential infidelity totem' and destroy it in front of him, whilst SCREAMING 'scooby snack attack! scooby snack attack!'.That should learn him up good.

Sorry, I just cant post actual serious advice without some sort of disclaimer.
I love it when people come here with ACTUAL lovelife problems, it rules.

You could... uh... send ME some pictures if you want to get back at him. Gotta keep things even, you know. :)

actually that isn't bad advice Dole. lol. i'm going to have a very serious talk tonight when we get home and he knows it hurt me alot and i'm still mad at him part of his punishment is my incessant bon jovi mp3 downloading/playing. and Chimp? you might get lucky on this one lol, next time i get pictures i'm posting them somewhere. i am going to let him suffer a bit, we're going to be at a show this weekend that my ex b/f will be at. i'm not going to like flash him or anything but just enough to make my bf jealous and realize that i can leave him if i wanted to. if he really cares about me he'll be honest with me tonight.

yes! that's the route!! show him you can make him just as jealous! fight fire with fire, young lady!!

I think you should post your problem on an internet message board and try to resolve it based upon the advice of ignorant strangers. Making your own decisions is way overrated.