[Perndog]

The opposite of love is indifference. Make yourself indifferent. Don't try to dislike the girl or find flaws in her. Just stop caring. No one can tell you how, because it's a different thing for each of us. Take all that advice about finding someone else, occupying yourself with something, etc. and translate that into something that works for you.

My method? I can just tell myself that she's not important, that there are or will be others, and that she doesn't *deserve* my attention. I don't have to make myself hate her specifically, I just drop her into that mental bucket with the faceless 90% of humanity I just generally dislike.