When I let her work things out for herself, she downed a bunch of pills. She needs someone to be there for her.
1. you don't LET her do anything
2. she needs to be there for herself
wreck is right. let her be. anyone who is shallow enough to attempt to kill themselves in order to make a guy like them again isn't worth your time anyways and has major self-esteem issues.
seriously.
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