[James]

But that's the thing. I didn't set myself up. I mean, I joked around about me being Mr. Rebound Guy (she got dumped recently, and she drew a guy who she named Mr. Rebound Guy, who wasn't helping her feel better. I said maybe I should be the rebound buy. We both knew I was totally joking around), but I didn't say anything or ask her about being with me. She just blindsided me with that comment, and now I can't stop thinking about it.

I'm not looking for advice, I'm just venting a little about my confusion. I learned that you guys are pretty shitty with the advice giving.

I don't mean that you guys give bad advice. I just mean that you have to wade through 10 replies of idiocy (BUBBA) to find someone who actually makes an attempt at something remotely serious.

So yeah, I'm just whining here, because now I'm just all confused.