[Anonymous]

My definition of love isn't cosmic osmo or a fantastical state of mind and being that teleports your consciousness into a field of roses and rainbows, it's simply knowing that regardless of what's said and done, you'll still deeply care for the person and put their welfare at least slightly before yours.

I don't split up love into categories, I simply have one definition.

And by that definition, I love four people right now.

Same principle applies to sex - as long as you don't expect it to be an earth-shattering experience and the very definition of your gender, it's great.