[Helm]

I agree with ArtificialBrandon and I'm listening to Kyuss! ROCK! Does that lyric really go "you've been burned by my lighter, and my lighter is hell" or am i just listening things? If it does, then Kyuss rule even more.

As to what we're discussing. Yes, your body chemistry and your inherent psychological makeout do indeed compute and process whether a person should be persued for mating in far less than five minutes of interaction. As long as you're going for this relationship thing, then it's impossible to disregard the fact that harwired instinctual processes are making 95% of the choice for you. But besides the issue how free will comes into play in this whole situation, you need to demistify the actual process of 'falling in love'. The romantic model that is constanly pressured on you via various means is mostly a hollow shell and inside it lies pure atavism; sex means far less in psychological terms than it means in gratification of instinctual directive. Your instinct wanted to fuck that girl the first time you ever saw her, regardless of how long it took you to catch up with it. Blah blahblah