Kee-Ryst.
Some of my best buddies are gay men. If some guy is interested in me but won't approach me because they *think* I might be snapping the fag, then I'm better off WITH the fag and my own fingers.
It just tells me that the straight guy has more issues than I care to deal with. I WANT a guy that knows what he wants and will go and get it.
(Even if it IS the gay guy)
