Hi Sadie, that sucks about your situation with your parents.
I remember when I was 19 and still living at home and this one time I wanted to go see a 10pm showing of Fight Club. My mom and dad told me that I should go to bed because I had to go to work the next morning, I said it would be fine and I was going anyway. Then they told me I HAD to stay in and I could go see it on the weekend. HMMMM, you are not me I said, and I left anyway.
You're a grown fucking woman who has a life of her own, parents just tell thier kids to do things thier way so they wont see them get hurt. But sometimes it takes that just to realize what they were trying to get across. Like me going out to late to see a movie and the being late for work the next day. (which I wasn't)
I know if I still lived at home my dad and I would have killed eachother for the remote control. I get along better with my parents not living with them.