[jin]

I think you should just not over-empathise or delve into their problems or show you care for them deeply and be an extremely sensitive person. :0

Its creepy. :o

Girls, and people in general, do not like jerks unless they are mentally-deficient - (usually this is not the case >;, though, sometimes strength of character and determination is easily confused with jerkatard) - They just prefer people who are strong in their own character and sure of themselves. :0

No-one wants to date a wet-sponge, they want to find someone who is strong and knows who they are, and sometimes this looks like jerkitude to people because those arent as willing to just bend over to everything. :<