[Protoclown]

My apologies for not coming into this thread to tell you off earlier, James, I just saw it today.

Perhaps if you weren't such a fucking misogynist, you wouldn't have a problem attracting the ladies.

Just be yourself, dude. You have to believe in yourself. Sooner or later, some girl is going to be interested. If not, well, you'll get a bunch of female friends (provided you're actually talking to them), and that can't hurt.

I've got more female friends than I've ever had before now, and I'm hanging out with them all the time. I'm interested in two of them romantically, but for right now we're just friends. One of them clearly is NOT interested in me romantically, and the other one might be. So I'm spending more time around the one who MIGHT be interested in me, just trying to get to know her better. I'm not trying to rush or force anything. She thinks I'm funny and nice, and if that puts me in the "friend" category forever because I'm not a "dangerous asshole", so be it. I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not. I'm going to be myself. And eventually the right girl will see the "real me" and like what she sees. If I'm lucky. If not, at least my life wasn't a pathetic lie.

And all these generalizations about how "girls go after this kind of guy" or "girls like this" are just generalizations. Remember that. People are individuals, with their own likes and dislikes. Nobody can be neatly categorized into groups...unless they're really insanely boring or something.

But I still think you're a fucking misogynist.