I lost someone in a car accident back in November...
http://www.nbc-2.com/news/stories/ar...t_killed.shtml
I was there too. I was in my best friend's TransAm, and these two girls were in a red honda next to us, one of which was my friend's girlfriend. On the way to a Starbucks we were fooling around and their car slammed into a tree. His girlfriend (the driver) lived, but the other was killed upon impact.
The worst thing is, I was going to ask her out at the Starbucks. She would've actually said yes too.
But life goes on. I don't believe in heaven or hell, and even if there was one, I doubt that god or whatever would be a big enough bitch to send an innocent to anywhere bad.