I like guys that are not like me, and I like guys with different hobbies. If you go for a guy w/ the same hobbies then it's hard to say "I'm gonna go knit with the girls at sarah's house" and he says "awwww I wanna go knit
" It takes away from your 'you' time. but like the guy I'm seeing now ownes a few semi-automatic weapons, I wanted to be on the SWAT team at one point, I like guns but have only shot a 9MM once so he's gonna take me shooting, it's something he enjoys that he can teach me about and then we can enjoy it together.