[glowbelly]

if somebody's someone dies and i don't know that somebody, i tend not to reply to a thread saying sorry, unless i happen to like the person, or can relate to them in some way over the whole death thing...and then i tend to take it off of a public forum.

ask james about that one.

if you don't want to congratulate me because you feel fake in doing so, then don't. but stop with the calling other people fake shit. i have a feeling that fartin really does care whether or not i have a healthy baby, because he's the same guy who sent me a birthday pm and wrote me a nice letter when he found out i had gone through an abusive relationship. plus he has kids, so in a way he's RELATING, you dig? my point is that you don't know the extent of the "friendships" that i have formed here and whose congrats i take as sincere and whose i don't.

so back off.

as for blobgal, she no longer exists in my world. it's that easy for me.

edit: and what sam said up there