[hawaiian mage]

Yeah. More emphasis on considering doing it in person.

While saying it in a letter has the benifit of not having to deal with any awkward responses coming from the hit upon party and let you choose your words very carefully, for those very same reasons it can sort of seem like you are hiding behind your words by not saying it in person.

You probably don't want to be distant when trying to become intimate.

In my opinion any way. [No current partner. May be indicitive.]