[Royal Tenenbaum]

I agree with Wreak! (wtf? it had to happen once) Get over yourself for fuck-sake; the likelihood that you will hurt her is so minute. She'll probably realize you are a fucking loser and dump you before you even have the chance. Also, you need to actually start a relationship with someone to love them; I doubt she is in love with you at the moment. You aren't going to scar someone for life if you go out on a couple dates and tell her you don't think the relationship could be anything more than friends.