She's a long distance friend, who I originally met through the internet a couple years ago. So technically, no. But regardless, it's not really a factor, seeing as I turned her down. If I said "YAT LET'S BE HAPPY LOVE YAY" then you would have reasons to make it a big deal. And then I could bring up Lenor.
Moving on, I edited my original post, because it wasn't obvious that I had written it up RIGHT after I got off the phone with her to vent, and some clueless people thought I was being egotistical. So I cleaned it up to get rid of some of the... you know, feelings.
As for hurting her. She was crying, so I'm pretty sure that means she was hurt.