
Mar 25th, 2003, 07:25 PM
There's always that chance that if the two of you got drunk, you wouldn't REMEMBER telling her, and you'd be back at square one.
Also, if I was in that situation, I don't see myself being able to be very celebratory in the event that she said "YES I LOVE YOU TOO!" if I was nursing a pounding hangover. That in itself would kinda be insulting, I'd think.
Look, I hate to say it, but there IS no easy way out. Not without consequences. Whether you believe love exists or not, or whether you've ever felt it or not, there's no denying that it IS one of the strongest human emotions there is, and the strongest emotions often cloud our judgement and fuck things up. That's why it's important to think this through. I know this sounds cheesy but it works... HINT AROUND IT. Slip a few cleverly worded questions into a conversation when appropriate, and take your answers from that. I never said it'd be easy, but unfortunately, all the best things in life require hard work. But if you love this girl as much as you say you do, wouldn't it be worth it?
And sorry to pull this off subject for a minute, but I've got a gripe of my own. As some of you may know, me and my girl broke up about two weeks ago, bla bla bla she's already been dating again bla bla bla... well, she's been calling me every day, for at least an hour, she suddenly actually seems more interested in me now than she did while we were dating (granted, we saw each other EVERY day for two years) and yesterday she had a more loving, dare I say seductive tone in her voice, i.e. she had a more breathy, Monroe-ish hint in her voice, which is VERY unusual for her. Do you think I'm reading too far into it, or is there something else going on?
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