[glowbelly]

i can't completely argue the 2 parent thang either...but what i do know is that i was the product of a 2 parent marriage that failed as soon as i was born (daddy went a-runnin and never turned back).

i can't say what is more hurtful:
knowing that you have a real, true father who has other children that he talks to but for some reason won't talk to you

or

knowing that you have a real, true father who chose to give you up for adoption because he didn't have the means to take care of you

orrrrrr

knowing that you were cultivated in a test tube because your mommy really wanted you, but was unable to find a decent man to marry first.