[glowbelly]

we got engaged around the same time, but i don't think dole is getting married until may of next year.

i knew about the engagement first...well, besides the lovely lady and dole, of course and perhaps one or two of dole's best buds (and i'm not talking about the marijuana buds, although they might have known FIRST first. this is something we will never know, because their secret was smoked).

right. so. i'm happy for dole and he knows it and i know he's happy for me so there ya go. and if all you crappy new people don't understand i'll tell ya a thing or two: hush up and piss off.

as far as stress with planning this thing, i would have to say that i've been extremely lucky and haven't felt any of it. i have a wonderful best jilly-bean in my life who is taking care of everything for me along with an aunt who has pretty deep pockets and endless, unconditional love. my only problem now is trying to figure out how to satisfactorily thank the both of them for what they have done for me. yup.