[derrida]

How am I supposed to read this post? Are you honestly asking a question or is this like sharing information about your penis and the stupid jokes you make that no one likes?

It could be that you aren't showing it, but the fact that you seem to be more concerned with whether you are going to bed this chick than stoked that you hooked up with a kindred spirit is downright creepy.

Perhaps you are autistic/Asperger's? If you are, don't look for advice on the internet. Most normal people can tell if there is some kind of physical or emotional attraction between two people. Also, what does romance have to do with fuck-buddies unless it's some kind of weird pretend thing that two lonely, broken people do to get off?

Why do you care if she gets hurt by you going elsewhere to dip your stick? She's a big girl, she'll know that any pain she experiences is self inflicted due to her lack of honesty. Are you supposed to put your shit on hold until she decides upon something? What are you, some kinda collectivist?

Are three-hour perambulations something you could find yourself doing with a male friend (whom you don't want to scrape)? Maybe she just digs your politics, intellect or personality. Maybe she just wants to make a dress out of your skin.