[Sacks]

Does this man have a knife? Is there lube? Did he buy my dinner first? I mean, what kind of scenario is this? Of course people would go with the gentle option. That's like asking "Would you like to pet a fluffy bunny or a wad of gum full of broken glass?" Unless of course your goal is to make it out like everyone is gay and wants it in the ass... Then I guess you went through the proper motions.