[slavemason]

The answer may be found in other uses of the term "out there". It is often used to describe weirdos who don't believe in Jesus or think that bathing is a waste of time or anything else that might make the average Tommy Hilfiger think that someone is off their rocker. The dream job and wonder woman are only substitutes for what makes a person happy. Sooner or later the dream job becomes a pain in the ass and that dream girl will be just another pain in the ass soon enough.