The worst part is just meeting endless misfits. Generally when I go to parties and the like I stick to the people I know and avoid the rest of the greasy goths. Most Goth chicks that I know are definiately not "hot" for the simple reason that they only hang around with goths is because they are fat, ugly and can't get a shag.
Helm, yeah when I do go out with 'em I do generally just wear some green combats and a Metallica shirt or something like that. I am definitely not a Goth (last time I checked...
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