[Lenor]

Ok.. wanna go that way.. try this ..

Theres two issues here, One being your pondering of being 'gay', which obviously started to manifest greatly when this female started to call you, asking you for advice, when theres no sex between you. I say two problems, because one, you obviously have thought of being 'gay' befor this has happend or else you most likely wouldnt be involving another person into your equasion to base a descion on the fact that this girl obviously likes your thoughts, appreciates you or could be takeing advantages of you in useing you for some mental stability. You could just not be able to tell this girl no, which is often a problem, being that nobody wants to hurt another person that badly, and if your not gettin a piece, well then your most likely in the 'friend zone' and wont be getting any from her.