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Originally Posted by ziggytrix
sometimes people are just natural mediators, but ideally it should be mutual, in my arrogant opinion.
and sometimes people think they are being the bigger person, when really they are just turning all their aggressive feelings into passive ones... i used to do that a lot.
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Isn't turning into passive feelings just part of compromise and give-and-take? If one person goes passive while the other remains agressive, isn't that the same as just mediating the situation?