[Babs]

The problem is if I'm just insecure about the situation I'm in with her. Her family was really affected by this whole recession thing and it's put her and her whole family and I really bad position.

The story is is that her family's house needed renovation, particularly the roof needed to be fixed because it was leaking. Well they paid this guy to fix it (their cousin) and he did half of it then the next day he just ran off with the money and never finished what he started. Then all hell breaks loose the next day, Ohio was hit with this really bad storm with winds reported up to 70 mph and her whole house got destroyed. Water got through and ruined the whole entire ceiling, walls, just everything damn thing was destroyed. It's now 8 months later or so and her dad won't even support her family (she has 3 more siblings, 1 being 24 and has the mentality of peter pan) and all he does and make the whole family feel like shit.

I love my girl friend more than anything, but she doesn't seem like she wants to help herself out, let alone another person. She won't get a job or even really try to look for a part time job. I'm stuck doing everything, I'm in no shape to be doing this. I'm just about to get insurance again and as soon as that happens I have to go straight to the surgery room. Not only that, but I have to maintain a constant 3.5 to stay in school. I feel really fucking over whelmed and I wonder if it's me putting her in a bad position in my head. She's been through a hell of a lot and I think she deserves better. It's really hard because when you care for someone so much, you just want what's the best for them even if you can't give them that. I'm only 21 and it seems like I have more to handle than I can right now.