[kahljorn]

Being yourself is a construct of ideas and thoughts you pick to make yourself feel happy, in most cases you pick them to get attention. "YOurself" is also a construct of your enviroment and thusly what others think of you. So why not just say you can be whatever the fuck you want to be, and if I want to be a fucking asshole who just wants to stick his dick in bitches and never romanticize, and the bitches just want the cock, it seems like a healthy relationship to me. Specially when it comes down to two people who want the same thing but are too shy to take care of it.