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Hell, I used to think you had to struggle to convince girls that you were worth their attention. That you constantly have to strive to convince them to like you. That you regularly have to deal with being ignored if you weren't convincing enough. That's just how I thought it worked. But it's not that way. It's not that way at all. You really DON'T have to beg for female attention, even though that's what I always thought you had to do to get it.
The problem is that you're obsessing. I used to do that with girls I liked, and now that I've started seeing it in other people, I'm realizing what a huge problem that was for me. And it's probably why I never had a girlfriend.
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Proto, this is very well put. I am now just starting to realize these things myself- And i couldnt agree more.
I think everyone should go through a situation like this once in their life so they can become better at working with the opposite sex and better themselves when the next girl/guy comes around. Experience comes with learning from mistakes-