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Zhukov · #1

When I first meet a girl I can pretty much be smooth and make them laugh for the first few weeks, but after a while this wears off and I just turn into a nonce.

No matter how hard I try I can't seem to be cool around girls I like for more than a few weeks. This in turn makes me more depresed and boring to be around.

I honestly don't think it is from being nervous.

Does anybody else have a similar sort of problem?

Dole · #2

I think 'Nonce' must have a pretty different meaning in your country than it does in mine. Or if it does have the same meaning, maybe thats where your problem is.

Helm · #3

You don't have to be interesting all the time. People aren't there to constantly entertain.

FS · #4

Maybe you're trying too hard to be cute all the time and the girls just get tired of it. I mean, past the initial flirting stage you can drop most of the facade and start acting like a serious person. Not that you can't make jokes anymore, just that you don't constantly have to be that guy who does that thing that makes them laugh.

AChimp · #5

I'm usually pretty good at thinking up material on-the-spot, but I swear, there have been times where I spent days working on a joke and coming up with a list of perfect times to use it, just so I can get ONE smile from a girl I like.

Yeah, I suck.

Matt Harty · #6

Being in a relationship or making friends shouldn't be an act. If you're worthwhile to be around and genuinely a good person, people will be attracted to you.

But if you spend all your time trying to impress people and joke, you become annoying and deserve to be alone.

AChimp · #7

These jokes are AWESOME, though.

Matt Harty · #8

tell one

Big McLargehuge · #9

HEY GUYS JUST BE YOURSELVES

FS · #10

Unless you're an utter tosser!

AChimp · #11

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Originally Posted by Matt Harty

tell one

Can't. Have to wait for the perfect time. And none of you are girls that I like.

Terra · #12

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Originally Posted by AChimp

I'm usually pretty good at thinking up material on-the-spot, but I swear, there have been times where I spent days working on a joke and coming up with a list of perfect times to use it, just so I can get ONE smile from a girl I like.

Yeah, I suck.

No you don't. Maybe the girl's are dorks and you just don't realize it since your working so hard to perfect your joke.

It's possible you know.