so your saying that you should read the koran in passages and out of context like you did up there, abcdxxx? instead maybe you should think of it as a whole book not just a collection of passages that you can pluck out interpert as you will
idk if your trying to say the problem is with the people who interpert the koran, or what. but if you sensibly think it out and read the passages as a whole then you'll that people incorrectly twist the meaning of the koran to justify there actions.
As for the fact of respect of women, I learned to respect women more from islam then life in america where the media shows nothing but women used as objects of sexuallity. same goes for violence; watching some cartoons and other shows make violence seem like the only answer in certain situations.