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Old Nov 4th, 2003, 01:11 AM        Deadly (Literally) serious. Long, but please help.
This isn't a relationship problem in the boyfriend/girlfriend sense. But a friendship is a relationship, and this forum has fewer retards. I'm telling you right now I have NO time for any idiots finding their way in here. And that is NOT an invitation for you to try your luck with me and attempt to piss me off. I'm already pissed off at you (whoever you are who is thinking of being a piece of shit), so save your time and just go irritate me in another thread.

Secondly, yes, this is an internet friendship. Again, no time for any of your shit, plain and simple. Heaven fucking forbid I value time and conversation, be it physical, over the phone, or text on a screen. So just save it, or use it in another thread.

I have a friend, who I've met not too long ago. She's an incredibly nice and sweet person. She's from L.A., but she's in the Philippines right now. Her father's a pretty powerful figure there, and they had to go spend a few months there for business-related issues.

She's with a boyfriend who, to put it bluntly, does not love her. He lives in Norway. She loves him, and is horribly devoted to him and trying sickeningly hard to get his love again. When I first started talking to her, she had recently been "taken back" by him, on the condition that she wasn't allowed to get mad. Then more recently, he showed up for two weeks, had sex with her, sumped her, asked if he could fuck another girl, then "took her back" again. He tears her apart and then collects what's left of her to mold into whatever he sees fit. I want to kill him.

She's very depressed. Very very depressed, more than me. She talks about how she wants to die, and how much her boyfriend affects her life, and how worthless she feels, and so on. She started seeing a psychologist, who just seems to recommend religion-heavy self-help books for her to buy, rather than actually help her. Needless to say, I worry myself sick that something's going to happen to her. I had her promise me she wasn't going to hurt herself.

She keeps everything bottles up. If something's wrong, she tries to ignore it, and put on a happy face for everything. I try to get her to talk to me, and she wants to change the subject. I reluctantly agree. It kills me to see her bottle everything up, because I can see how much she's hurting when I read her website.

Today, I read an obscure comment about her possibly leaving everything forever is she's "successful." I pestered her about it, but she had to go to class. I continued to worry, up until I fell asleep for about 2 hours and woke up in a cold sweat. I see she's online, and I pry. I beg her to talk to me. I tell her I'm her friend, and I care about her too much to keep changing the subject, no matter how much she doesn't want to talk. I tell her that I want to help her, I want to know what's wrong, and I want her to get her feelings out there instead of waiting for all the bottled up shit to explode.

And that's when she tells me she tried to kill herself two days ago. Part of the reason being that she feels that if she kills herself, her boyfriend may love her again. But that's not the only reason. There's so much more going on with her, so it's NOT just boyfriend stuff. But it seems to be a big part.

She's halfway across the world, and all I have for communication with her is AIM. She tried calling me, but my number is considered out of service by her phone. I can't call her, because the charges would be too high. She won't be back in the US until January/February, and that's if she manages to stay alive until then. I'm helpless here. I'd do anything to help her, and to prevent her from doing this again. But I don't know what to do.

No bullshit. No humor. Just help. Please, just help.
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