I met this guy..

[Zosimus]

oh that insane love....

If you aren't sure of the guy, DON'T feel obliged to sleep with him straight away (not with him or with any other guy)...If you want him to stick around, make sure that he's there for all the "right" reasons, not just for the screwing part it!
A fuck will almost always JUST be a fuck and thats all..love on the other hand, demands patience and time, if a/any guy doesn't give you that time then you know how far the relationship is going and trust me...its NOT going to end up as: "True love"!!

The ex girl friend is obviously a controlling little bitch. Only sadomasocists are into getting dominated by girls or women like her.

If I were you, I wouldn't care too much about this little cunt or her bullshit friends, it isn't your fault the guy liked you better (and from the sound of that phone call, who can blame the poor guy for disliking her?!).

I am sorry for you in the way that these girls are so damn immature, and you know? They might very well go out of their way to make you feel uncomfortable...jealousy makes people act really stupid. I say, stick close to people you can trust and TALK with this guy, he might just turn out to be a real friend to you , who knows, right?

The most important thing here is how you see yourself. You have to stop worrying about the way the other girls are/look like and that kind of crap.
YOU have GOT to have more self confidence!!!
That is the #1 rule in llife, no matter who the hell you meet, for any reason!