serious question need advice

[Kulturkampf]

It is not intended that way. Do you live in your hometown? I do not.

Some people date people from their hometowns, but for people who travel, one hs to meet new women; it is not as if I come to a new place and know everyone, and so I want to meet new people and obviously want to date someone. So you meet as many people as you can, and from there gather some sort of idea of what is going to happen.

I met my current girlfriend after a few weeks of searching for the right one, and I would not have met her unless it was my goal to go out and meet women.

That's how it goes.