James:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com
I have geek friends who swear by this guy's work. They're still geeks but now they get laid, and about a third of the chicks I see them with actually meet my own standards. One out of three winners ain't bad compared to nothing.
If you don't want to pay for the book, it can be downloaded on Kazaa, and he also has columns on some dating advice site. Just search for David DeAngelo on Google.
Good luck.