hair!

[MLE]

if you're looking for a STRIKING look then go for the blonde and short -totally. this is for if you still manage to have a social life while raising your kid at this time. this will give people the appearance that you don't tire as easily!

now, if you're going to be at home a bunch and just would like something that was more natural and suave i'd go for short and red -totally.

<3 -mle

EDIT: ps- the hair color doesn't matter as much as long as it's not black. that makes you look super whiny goth :<
go for the same hairstyleish, though i'd recommend going a lil shorter in the back than usual because it's more fun to style, but keep the front just long enough that it won't hurt too much when cub pulls on it.

the haircut itself is mainly what looks good. if you're having a huge problem deciding between blonde and red, i'd definetly go for blonde first, because you can't go from red to anything, really (except darker like dark brown and black). red dye is a huge pain to get out, so don't get it unless you're certain ;>