Totally totally used

[AChimp]

I honestly don't think that there was anything wrong with the guy's reaction, because I'd probably do the same thing now. Two months into the relationship isn't the time to drop off the baggage. If the guy was an asshole, then that's just bad luck and he would have dropped you either way eventually.

If he was a nice guy and genuinely liked you, though, then I think your e-mail was way out of line. You basically accuse him of cheating on you and being shallow, completely out of nowhere. How would you react if someone did that to you? You probably owe him an apology, IMO.

Never write these kinds of things while depressed, because your mind is filled with all of the irrational possibilities that you can think of and you just end up adding all of that in. Your first reaction is to think that someone else is the reason behind why you feel shitty. I know this because I once did what you did and absolutely no good came of it. It took me months to put myself back together afterwards.

Save yourself some trouble in the future and discuss things like this with close friends to get someone else's opinion on the situation. Chances are you're seeing things that aren't really there.