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How to Flirt with a Guy

Learn how to flirt step by step. Impress the guy you like, and play flirtacious games! Show the guy you like him, and you may be surprised when you find out that he likes you too.
Steps

1. Approach him and start a conversation, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence.
2. Try to touch him whenever you can, on his arm or wherever else. Don't make it too obvious.
3. Play with your hair or clothing.
4. Talk sexy around him to get his attention, and lick your lips, but don't change your voice too much. This can be a turn-off. Instead, just sweeten your voice a little, make yourself sound happy.
5. Once you've got his attention, look him in the eyes and smile. If he smiles back, slowly look down, and repeat. Guys like girls who can show off their smile.
6. Don't make it too obvious when he's around his friends, unless you know that he likes you.
7. Laugh with him, and help him to feel comfortable around you.
8. Find a reason to whisper something in his ear.
9. Don't try to be someone you aren't. You attract the kind of person you are. Don't pretend to be a sportsy type when you're really a poet.
10. Talk about what you have in common, and ask questions about what you don't. People love to feel like they're interesting. (And heck, they probably are, too.)
11. Say his name a lot. This shows you're interested in who he is. Give him a nickname, so you two have a little inside joke to share. Most likely, he'll give you one, too!


Tips

* Don't flip your hair too much, instead find a small stray chunk and twist it around your fingers.
* Try not to make it obvious that you are flirting.
* Don't try too hard to impress him.
* Be yourself, and add some flirting to go with it.
* Don't flirt with someone else's boyfriend or husband it only leads to trouble.
* Auto-erotic touching (touch your lips, neck, chest with your fingers or hands) - it is something people do subconsciously when they like you, but you can manipulate it.
* Boss him around or call him names (in a nice way); anything to make him notice you. He won't take offense to the name calling if he likes you!
* Whenever he's around, make sure you're having fun (laughing, etc) so that he'll want to join in.
* Change your tone of voice when you're around him.
* Take a break every now and then to leave him wanting more.
* Massages are always nice.
* Tell him you had a dream about him. If he finds this kinda creepy, then just say it wasnt 'about' you, but you were there!
* Don't apply lipstick, chapstick, or lipgloss in front of him.
* Tell him you'd like to see him again if leaving, or mention that you'd like to try one of his hobbies.
* Listen carefully to what he says, and let him know you were listening through your conversation.
* Remember what he mentions in passing (it's the little things that count!) and bring it up later as a question. For example, he says "I've got to go home, I'm helping my sister study for her exam tomorrow." Later, you ask, "How did your sister (call her by her name if you know it - it shows you can put two and two together!) feel she went in the exam?"
* Do your research. If he mentions that he loves baseball, ask him if he watched the game on the weekend, and know the score or something that happened so you can talk about it. If you don't know much about what he likes (e.g. Baseball), get him to teach you something about it - he will feel knowledgable and important, and it's the perfect excuse to spend time with him!
* Ask to borrow things, or for help with something, but don't be too clingy. Show him that you can handle things for yourself most of the time. This way he will be intrigued by your independence.
* Hint about a movie you'd like to see.


Warnings

* Be careful that he's not leading you on so he can make a fool out of you.
* Don't dress like a slut or skank, instead leave a little to the imagination
* Make sure he doesn't have a girlfriend who will be a snob to you, if she finds out you've been flirting with him. She will have the right to be a snob to you, you're invading her relationship.
* Certain boys can sometimes be very unfair! So be careful if you tell any of his friends!
* Boys act differently around their mates.
* If his friends don't like you but he does you shouldn't let him keep you a secret. this just shows that he isn't proud of his woman and you want someone who wants you for you and doesn't care about what others think. You don't have to rush to say that you're in love or not; so don't trap him.
* Don't pretend to be interested in something just for the sake of flirting - if you decide to make a move, it might mean you end up pretending to be someone you're not.


Related wikiHows

* How to Ask a Guy Out
* How to Get a Guy to Notice You
* How to Act Around a Guy You Like