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I think he meant rooting, but anyway, thanks.
Does a guy usually call right away, or do they usually wait to act like they are cool? There is no way I'm calling him, I think that would make me seem too desperate, right? guys? amd I right?
I really don't like liking people, that is why I act like a sarcastic bitch and I guess if he can deal with that for a llittle while until I get comfortable and break down my "wall of torture" then that means they are a keeper. But really how annoying is that when you are trying to get to know someone? I need to change my ways, maybe I should go on Dr. Phil?