How do you get over someone?

[ginmortal]

You just won't be able to get over her, unless you actually try, it might make you feel like a jerk, but you have to meet other girls and go out with them, even if it hurts.

Im now happily married, but lately I've been thinking a lot about my first ex, she just got divorced, and actually made a comment of "why didn't we get married?", sure, now that I can't, she says it, damn whore, filthy bitch, I should get my gun and kill her, burn her house and piss on the ashes...

Oh, by the way, yeah, I have nice feelings towards her, but Im in no rush to divorce my wife to be with her, sure, she's beautiful, smart, makes a ton of money and has no kids, but hey, what the hell, what makes me think that this time it'll work?? We're the same people, with the same goals from 10 years ago, if it happened, there's no real reason for it to work out.

In the end you have to do whatever you really like, meet someone in the process and live happily ever after, it sure is a pain in the ass, but it works out.

And you should enjoy being depressed, it won't happen often.