
Nov 4th, 2003, 05:25 AM
Wreck's first response was advice, and I thank him for giving it. I responded with my opinion of his advice, saying that I don't feel that it's safe to leave her to deal with these problems on her own, because that's what she was doing in the first place. His advice was exactly what I was doing in the first place. I left her alone, told her whatever was wrong, she was strong enough to overcome it, and she attempted suicide. I want her to be able to deal with these problems, to not want to kill herself, and just be happier. No problem there.
The problem was when he started derailing this topic by attacking my motives and my character, which was simply uncalled for.
Wreck, if it makes you feel better, I'll just say that I'm sexist. I'm the King, whatever I say goes, and I only care about girls who are suicidal, and all men can go kill themselves.
The point is, even if that were all true, it doesn't change the fact that I have a friend who I'm worried will attempt suicide again, who may succeed, and who generally is just in bad shape. I want to help her, but the situation isn't that easy. So I came asking for advice, because I don't have anywhere else to turn.
I thank you for the, though I do not feel that the option is one I'd feel safe in taking. No big deal if I disagree. But to redirect things by making your assumptions and attacking me is stupid. Because as I said, even if all your opinions on me were true, it doesn't change the problem one bit.
Settled? Now, I'd appreciate if we could get back on track here. You may not care what happens to her, but I do.
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