Deadly (Literally) serious. Long, but please help.

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James, the ONLY advice I would give her at this point is to tell her to get another better shrink, and then YOU need let things go. She's obviously deeply disturbed if she thinks that killing herself is going to get her some posthumous affection from a guy who has obviously never given a shit about her in the first place.

As codependent as her behavior is, you're just as bad if not worse. YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS GIRL. Sitting up at nights and worrying about someone you've NEVER EVEN MET?? Good lord man, that's fucking crazy! Listen to how it sounds! You've NEVER MET HER AND YOU PROBABLY NEVER WILL. I'm not saying that your goal is to meet her or that you have ulterior motives or anything of the sort...but if you haven't met her, WHY WORRY ABOUT HER? She's not even "real", she's just a bunch of pixels on a screen. That's as "real" as it's ever going to get for you. I respect that you care about her but there's no reason for YOUR life to get put on hold for someone who for all you know could be a fat 40 year old male virgin living in his parents' basement (camgirl pictures or not). You've done what you can do, the fact is, you CAN'T really be there for her online. You're not responsible if she does anything stupid at this point. You were never responsible for her or her actions. Don't you understand?

Just let it go. She'll either work it out on her own (or with the help of people who are physically available) or she'll kill herself, in which case she's just simply not a survivor. If she was going to kill herself over something this stupid, then she probably would have done it one day down the road anyway, eh?