So a girl tells me

[Toadie]

In all seriousness, James, whoever said that she dosent know waht love is was right. I had the same problem with my girlfriend (well, now ex-girlfriend, but lets ignore that part for now) at first. She really liked me as a friend and didnt want to lose that, but that was because she had that superficial boyfriend/girlfriend/fucking partner idea which is wrong. Just have a serious conversation with her about that, and explain that really the best relashionships are the ones that start off as friendships. If she is looking for someone she could spend the rest of her life with (like dating is intended to be) then what better person then someone she gets along with wonderfully from the start, not someone who she has to learn to love?

Just talk to her dude, it worked for me. I just wish you better luck then I had in the end.

...then again, if it worked we couldn't make fun of you anymore...so DOOM ON YOU!