Fear and loathing....

[Skulhedface]

Well Generator, all I can do is say "sorry" because I lost my girlfriend of two years last week, but as much as it might hurt, you have to be a man about it. You can't just allow yourself to go down the shitter in an alcoholic daze, because that makes you seem TOO dependant on someone else to make you happy. It may hurt, yes, but you DID have a life outside of her, right? Life ISN'T over because you lose someone you love. It's painful to deal with but it's NOT over. In fact, this is the first time I've even brought up that I did go through a breakup because you have to deal with it, you can take advice, and you can take mine for what it's worth, perhaps a guideline, but no one can make anything better for you EXCEPT YOU. I know this, and now you do too. Get on with your life.

It was a bit harsh, maybe, but look. Most people want to slip in denial after something like that, and reality can be a big fucking kick in the ass, but nothing will get better if you don't TRY to make it better. No one is going to hold your hand to get you out of your funk, you have to learn to have the balls to take enough advice to guide you and then PULL YOURSELF UP.