The BlueOatmeal Advice thread!

[Raize]

I'm a tad bit concerned by your suggestion. You said to "chumbawumba" my boss. But my boss is the problem, not the solution. She's not hot, this other co-worker (who she doesn't supervise) is.

Also, another update is that there is another female coworker that would be upset if I dated this girl. And last but not least, this girl is dating a guy that I know and don't really want any trouble with. I think I'm just going to pass on the whole thing.

My life is one of those daytime soaps, where the only available women are those upset with their boyfriends and yet still date them because they (in the words of Pearl Jam) "can't find a better man."