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Oct 7th, 2005, 09:14 PM
First you say, "Would you like to have dinner with me some time at <name of restaurant>?"
If she says yes, then you say, "Okay how does <time and day> sound?"
If she says no, then you say, "Thanks anyway, maybe we can hang out some other time." And then walk away and try not to look really sad or angry or anything.
Smile when you talk to her, and be very polite. Wear nice clean clothing, and make sure you are well groomed (and shaved if you have facial hair) and smell good when you ask her. Don't use too much cologne if you decide to go down that route. Relax, and maybe practice what you are going to say a few times before you actually go through with the real run. Don't practice somewhere that people will hear you and laugh at you though. If you practice enough and you get really nervous when you ask her out, then it will just roll off naturally and you'll be okay. If you don't practice and you get really nervous you'll probably blow it... so keep that in mind.
If you have never talked to her before you may consider starting out with something like, "I think you are very pretty, and I was wondering if you would like to...etc"
Make sure you wear good looking clothes. Cheap shirts are nice for everyday hanging out, but asking a girl out and for dates you should wear nice clothes. Make sure they look good on YOU though, which means you may have to spend a decent amount of time in a store looking at clothes.
Anyway, that's my best advice. Practice makes perfect so if you fail the first time, don't be afraid to try again some other time... but don't pester any particular girl too much!
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