It never hurts to ask

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hookers?

dropping the mensa schtick?

both sound like keys to happiness and gateways to improved living if you ask me....

...but instead i'll divert the the question, and repeat some advice i heard john waters give at a key note speech once (no, really)...which sums up to "just figure out what patterns in your life aren't working for you, and don't do them". pretty simple. the pencil moustache helps.